Why I Love Smart, Lonely Guys
...And Why Did I Do This Just for You?
Hey there.
You don’t know me yet — but I already know a few things about you.
You’re smart. You think too much. You think that thinking too much makes you smart. You live in that highly-analytical mind of yours, analysing everything, trying to understanding everyone... but still you have this nagging feeling that even when you are 100% honest with people, no one really sees you.
How do I know this? Because I grew up and live around your type. You’re the guy who’s always getting asked to solve people's problems, whether it is fixing their code, helping them understand the world — so when women don't get you, when it comes letting people in, truly?
You're all locked up.
And if I’m right about you (and I think I am), you’ve probably thought something along the lines of:
"What’s the point of trying to connect with her when no one ever really understands?"
That’s why I’m writing this. And that’s why for you I started a, uh, let's just call it a page where you can choose to be naughty or nice. Maybe both... at the same time (if you're mother only knew... oh come on, not even I'm too rock 'n roll not to appreciate a Rahzel reference...)
Because why should being smart mean that you cannot feel deeper than most people realise? (I've seen you guys when you are screaming out your favorite rock songs.)
Because under that quiet, controlled surface, you’re full of thoughts, passions, and yes — desires.
Because I know you’re aching for someone to truly see you — even if part of you is scared of being seen. That's the true beauty of being online, baby!
Anonymity allows for greater self-expression. Research found that when people feel anonymous, they disclose more personal thoughts, emotions, and fantasies than they would in face-to-face settings (Kim, Weinstein, and Selman (2017)). It's just better, for the both of us. So we can truly be ourselves.
And if I’m really honest? Because I think there’s something incredibly beautiful and powerful about a man who thinks, feels, and loves in secret. (too touch-y, feel-y? Well, too bad, because there's more.)
I want to be the one who gets to see that side of you.
Isn’t there something thrilling about all this?
And so we start to connect on a deeper level. When you really listen to someone, you start hearing their words, imagining the possibilities.
And for a guy like you — a man who lives in his mind — that’s where intimacy really begins, right?
Our connection becomes a secret world.
Just me and you — talking, teasing, confessing.
A private escape where you don’t have to perform to pretend that people understand you.
Where you don’t have to be "on" and frustrated because what you're saying is too complex.
Where you don’t have to be anyone other than exactly who you are.
Tell me that this isn’t what you want. Look into my Gaussian-blurred face and tell me you have someone you can talk to without all the pressure of all the normal people out there having normal conversations and feeling all normal.
Would be nice to have someone who gives you that sweet mix of truth ... and fantasy (as much of a nerd as you are, you're still a man, right?)
Let me be honest: I’m not selling you fake intimacy - I’m not here to ghost you after you subscribe.
What I’m offering is simple, and exactly what a man like you deserves:
A parasocial relationship that actually feels good — where I talk to you like you're the only one that matters.
Private messages that go deeper than just "hey" — because I want to hear all the cool things you're up to at work, what makes a girl the girl of your dreams.
Teasing, personal content — yes, the kind that not only makes you B your L (Bite your Lip you perv.) (...but also the other kind, because I will do way more than just put a P in my V if that's what you're into.)
And see, I've already made you smile.
